Friday, July 18, 2014

人生際遇

調升後至今差不多一年了,去年也大概是這個時候,一位共事已久行將退休的同事,因為不滿部門主管的待遇,向主管 雷霆, 马上離職了; 一切都來得突然, 沒有送行,也沒有慰問卡。

今年七月初,另一位同事宣佈退休,所有人都來向她祝福問候,還為她開了一個“surprise party” ,除了同事外,行內的舊相識都來參加了,大家都在分享彼此共事的樂趣和挑戰,須未至勃然下淚,但也距此不遠,場面溫馨感人。後來她對我說,未曾對自己有過這樣的肯定,這一切給她在這專業上,畫上了一個句號。往後她可以重新開新頁,過新生活。

前兩天,小猴的部門主管突然召集所餘無幾的三倆同事一起,宣佈他要辭職了。這一消息對我來說是有點受不了,心感戚戚然。雖然是天下無不散之宴席,但他要離去,其結局應該不是這樣寫的。他直言離開的原因是因為與新上任的大主管的工作理念不一致,與其面左左,不如提前退休,還可趁所餘的魄力,希望另有一番作為。事出突然,沒有時間為他來一個“surprise party”之類的動作,不過經他的同意,已定下了日期與他一起吃“最後的午餐”,祝福他。

人生際遇屬難預料,如何把握自己的命運,是掌握在自己的手中。

我的結局又會如何呢?


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31 comments:

  1. 翻工係咁架喇.明明好好地又有人搞三搞四,有能力提早退休未必不是好事.

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    1. 現在的年輕人,不比以前的前輩有專業精神或有禮貌,他們一到任就好像要殺一儆百的,好不饒人!

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  2. 聚散離合,人生無常!

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  3. 白花很美,總是認不出是什麼花!

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  4. At where I work, there's been a lot of personnel/management changes in these past few years. Even though I'm surviving and doing well, I don't like the way how things are heading. That's why I have started my countdown to retirement even though everybody thinks that I'm too "young" to retire, especially that I've always been a workaholic. However, the situation made me very determined to leave this work world as soon as I can. I'm ready to let go.

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    1. Our unit has already been lean and mean. Because of this change, I have to bear more work and responsibilities. I can't breathe no more. I want to retire as well.

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    2. I know it's easier said than done. But, hang in there. It's an ever-changing world and things can be very unpredicted. You just never know what's going to happen tomorrow.

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  5. 小猴 , 不必想得太多, 一齊隨遇而安好了 , 有時人算不如天算呢 !!

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    1. 謝謝Betty的支持和鼓勵!

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  6. 踏足社會後,發覺工作不難,難在人際關係的問題。

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    1. 無論是去到東方或西方,這個問題那裡都是一樣!

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  7. 已經見慣了這些場面,一切處之泰然。

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    1. 雖然出來社會做事良久,但很少遇上這些問題。可能是年紀大了,見到不同情況也多了,學你話齋,一切要處之泰然!謝謝您的分享!

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  8. Early retirement has been an option in my head for some years. Don't know when it will be executed.
    Having that option actually keeps me sane at the most difficult time.

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    1. 原來退休也可作避難所的一個選擇!

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  9. 小猴不必想太多,照自己的計劃做啦!如果真係受唔住嘅!就效部門主管提前退休囉!

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    1. 謝謝janejane的鼓勵,現在一切都要看大主管的安排了,希望會順利過渡吧!

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  10. 聚散無常, 這便是人生, 各奔前程未必喺壞事, 只有祝福他們吧! 謝謝分享!

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    1. 要接受改變,但這過程也比較困難和漫長。謝謝鼓勵!

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  11. 當時有反應好正常, 過後回頭看又小菜一碟, 做好自己本份, 做自己喜歡的活動,影影靚花,開心回家.

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    1. 唯有這樣,時間會沖淡一切。謝謝鼓勵!

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  12. 職場離合本是平常事, 東家不打打西家, 無需介懷, 倒是捨不得合不來的同事. 離職後保持聯絡經常叙會才最重要.

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  13. 一齊共事,可以合拍的同事很少,除了性格夾唔夾外,大家做事的方法、節奏都需要時間去培養,總之係..現在又要重頭來過,覺得有點累!

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    1. 忙啊!謝謝janejane來問候!

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  15. 公司內的人際關係,離離合合,正如我上面提過,見慣了。最令我震驚的是有一次因為公司改組而裁員15%,被裁的人真是無辜....

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  16. 前任市長一做就二十年,在市內建立了很多政治勢力和關係。去年他宣布退休,由一位新的市長上任,那就是新人事新作風,很多舊羽殘黨都被連根拔起。 當然這些人中不乏是靠裙帶關係入座的,但也有一些是挺能幹的,這些人被裁員了,是替他們不值啊!

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  17. 小猴,明天是快樂的中秋節,祝妳和家人同聚慶佳節,中秋節快樂!

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